Yes, the audience knows you are great at what you do, but how do you treat others when the crowd isn't looking? One of the greatest lessons we learn as a community is the importance of being humble and teachable. With the world going through so much and at different times, it comes with being aware of how we can truly make an impact, stand out and be the change we want to see. This isn't to say that we aren't always influenced by what we see and hear; instead, we can influence the narrative and make changes where there are gaps.
It is important to identify what areas in your life are strengths and what are weaknesses, and how to combat both together to create talent, skills and enhanced gifts; however, we do not want them to turn into potential pride. There is a saying that the most important contributions one can make in life is to celebrate others when they hear of good news, celebrations, promotions etc. It is wise for others to celebrate the results you achieve, rather than it only being yourself, as they are the people doing the marketing for you.
Nonetheless, being celebrated is not the same as potential pride; it can turn into pride when it makes you change towards others or become indifferent to them. Being celebrated for doing good and making an impact should always be recognised; nonetheless, it is not to use our status to overrule others or make them feel they are less than. We are all valuable individuals that require respect and dignity.
We should by now, learn to constantly practise what we preach, letting our yes be yes, and our no be no. Taking the time out to serve and support someone else fulfil and achieve their goals may not always be acknowledged publicly, but you will be remembered by the person who received your help. We should also be mindful not to help or support people with the intention of what's in it for us; naturally, we must learn how to develop strong relationships with others and allow them to authentically grow gracefully in the way they've been called to.
Pride is a gradual separator of good things – whether we realise it or not, an attitude of spite, ego or flamboyant activities does not promote wellbeing or personal development; rather, it makes it difficult to be understood, therefore, limiting the progress that could've been made or achieved in ones' life. We shouldn't hide or become fearful of whether our accolades or hard work will be seen in public; whether people notice you or not, take the time to celebrate your own journey and use it to inspire someone else.
When your eyes and ears aren't always on you, but is willing to serve and support someone else in their journey of life, it makes the process easy to endure and others will be encouraged to follow you, thus increasing your influence. Remember that in all things, your talents are what enables you to meet great opportunities, but it is the character that will help you maintain and keep them. Don't allow pride to get the best of you; instead, help others in their journey and see how collaborations and partnerships will take you further, than taking the solo road.
Till we meet again,
Woman's Worth Conference Group.
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