Writing & Photography by David K. Carpenter posted: " Today is Father's Day here in the USA, and in some other parts of the world as well. This got me thinking about how some people's faith journey is impacted by their relationship with their earthly father. What I mean by that is there are people who were " Master's Canvas - Writing & Photography by David K. Carpenter
Today is Father's Day here in the USA, and in some other parts of the world as well. This got me thinking about how some people's faith journey is impacted by their relationship with their earthly father. What I mean by that is there are people who were blessed with a loving, caring father, so they may have an easier time embracing the idea of a loving, caring Heavenly Father. On the other hand, people whose father was absent, distant, mean, or worse probably struggle to think of a Heavenly Father as a good thing.
As a father myself, though, I can't help but think that no matter how hard I tried, there were myriad times and ways I failed to be the loving, caring father I wanted (and still want) to be. I'm not beating myself up here, but I'm saying this to point out that Jesus invited us to look past our shortcomings as fathers and those of our own fathers when he said:
"Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him!"
Jesus, in Matthew 7:9-11
What this says to me is that each of us dads who really are trying our best still can't measure up to how loving and caring our Heavenly Father is for each and every one of us, His children. I also believe Jesus is hinting at the idea that no matter how good or bad our earthly father is or was, we should not judge God as Father based on that standard since God is infinitely better than even the best earthly father, and His love and greatness can overcome even the most horrible father.
And this further got me thinking about how Jesus modeled for us how we should relate to our Heavenly Father. When speaking with God the Father, Jesus often did so out loud so we could catch a glimpse into their conversations--and that's really what prayer is intended to be: a conversation with God. And in those conversations, Jesus did not use grandiose, inflated, "religious" language. Instead, he used intimate, loving words when talking with God. In fact, he didn't generally use the formal term, "Father". Instead, he favored the more colloquial Aramaic term, "Abba", which is closer to what we would usually say as "Dad".
Here's the thing: Jesus is showing us that we don't have a God that's "out there somewhere" or aloof and living by Himself in an ivory cathedral, not wanting to be bothered by us. He's demonstrating for us that God is with us, near enough to hear us whisper, "Dad," even on the darkest of nights. Jesus is telling us that no matter how good a dad we try to be or how great a dad we have had, God is an infinitely better father. He wants what's best for us even more than we hope that for our children. He loves us so much more than our earthly dads ever could, no matter how hard they try.
So on this Father's Day, I wish all the dads out there a Happy Father's Day, and I invite all of us to thank our Heavenly Dad for the countless ways He has loved us and cherished us and blessed us, far beyond even what we could ever ask or imagine.
A Dreamer posted: " It just hit me that we are going on vacation in 17 days. I mean, I've had the dates memorized since we made the reservation, but oh shit that is right around the corner. And OMG, I have a ton to do. All the laundry. Replacemen" Musings of a marginally sane feline-appreciating female.
It just hit me that we are going on vacation in 17 days. I mean, I've had the dates memorized since we made the reservation, but oh shit that is right around the corner.
And OMG, I have a ton to do. All the laundry. Replacement pair of shorts & pants. Make the house feel less like a disaster area so I'm not hugely depressed when we return.
It's not insurmountable, but it is a lot. And I'm kinda salty about it all, because I'd given myself permission to go slow this weekend cause I'm still trying to bounce (or slog) back from work trying its best to grind me into dust the past 3 months. Before all that went to shit, I had actually been keeping up on things.
I did hit yesterdays little goal of getting the car all shiny - got the car washed, cleared out all the trashy bits and vacuumed it. The trashy bits were A LOT and that is because a few weeks ago, l had to temporarily move the little trash can I keep on the passenger side floor to the back seat and kept forgetting to put it back.
There is definitely an object lesson here, but I'm not sure if it's more complicated than "have a lot more trash bins within arms reach everywhere in the house."
Now, given all this, am I studying my list to decide what to hit first? Or even picking something at random? Oh god no, I'm researching vegetable choppers for potato salad I'll never make.
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