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Mom’s Guide To Coping With Stress-Related Mental Health Issues

Posted: 22 Jun 2022 04:23 PM PDT

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Modern life is stressful Not least when you have to juggle motherhood with housekeeping, a career, a social life, and more. Left untreated, it can lead to a range of physical and mental health. Therefore, it's imperative that you take the necessary steps to manage the situation for the sake of your family as well as yourself.

It can seem very daunting, especially when you are not in a position to make major life changes. Nevertheless, implementing the right steps can unlock significant benefits. Here are some of the best options to consider.

Get your finances under control

Financial worries are the most common source of stress. If your money concerns are harming your mental health, it's vital that you regain control of the situation ASAP.

It may take months (or even years) to transform your financial health. Nonetheless, you can take significant steps to get more organized. From consolidating debts to tracking your bills to avoid late payment fees, each move is a step in the right direction.

Learning to build your credit score is another significant step to take. Credit reporting agencies can provide guidance relating to this matter.

Find ways to relax your body and mind

Many people suffer from stress-related issues because they allow it to build without any form of escape or release. Introducing daily relaxed vibes will pay dividends. 

Whether it's a few minutes of meditation or using THC-O in the evenings is up to you. The chance to increase your emotional wellness and bring a little balance to your life will make a big impact. Not least because you know the safety net is there when needed.

However, it is equally crucial to take vacations and days out to inject some relaxation into your life. Again, the concept of bringing balance to a hectic lifestyle is key.

Talk to an expert

Most people will experience stress on a daily basis. However, if you have lost control of the situation and experience anxiety or depression, you should seek help.

Reported mental health cases have soared since the pandemic. Talking to your doctor about your issues instantly lifts a weight from your shoulders and shows that you're not alone. It can be the first step to gaining the right treatment or medication.

As well as speaking to your doctor or mental health therapist, you can head to forums to find people experiencing the same things. There should be no shame or embarrassment.

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Look for housework shortcuts

When you regularly experience stress, it is probably heavily linked to a lack of time. Household chores are one of the chief reasons why this situation develops.

Thankfully, there are ways to overcome this problem. Choosing robotic vacuums, a Crock Pot, and dishwashers will help. Meanwhile, a minimalist approach to interior design means that you can spend less time cleaning and more time enjoying the home.

Gardening is another issue that can be very time-consuming. But it can also be therapeutic. Look for shortcuts like adding artificial lawns while still doing the tasks you enjoy.

Review your support network 

We are all influenced by the people around us. So, the value of your support network cannot be ignored for a second. Because toxic friends could be the source of your stress.

Maybe they lead you to poor decisions. Or perhaps they borrow money and never pay it back. Either way, stepping back from negative influencers will allow you to focus more time and energy on people who have a positive impact on your life.

It is also a wise idea to review the accounts you follow on social media. FOMO and inferiority complexes can surface when you see fake lives.

Sleep well

Frankly, the impact that healthy sleep patterns can have on your physical and mental health is huge. Not least because it regulates your cortisol level.

Investing in an Emma mattress or another quality product will provide the perfect starting point. For the best results, though, you must consider your pillows, duvets, and evening routines too. It's not just about getting to sleep. You need the REM phases.

Most adults should get 7-9 hours of sleep each night. If your child's sleeping habits mean you have to adapt your daily routines, let it be.

The final word

There is no way to eliminate stress from your life entirely. With the above steps at your disposal, though, you should notice a reduction in its frequency and impact on your life. Right now, that will feel like a life-changing success.

The Pandemic Has Totally Changed Our Sex Lives

 
Scary Mommy
Jun 23, 2022
 
 
YUP
The Pandemic Has Totally Changed Our Sex Lives
 
Let's just jump right in today: What did the pandemic do to your sex life? To everybody's sex life, particularly parents? Today Kim Brooks – author of Small Animals: Parenthood in the Age of Fear – is investigating the impact of COVID-19 on the sex lives of moms. Here's the tricky part, though: It's not necessarily the impact you'd expect. 

She recounts a recent conversation with a friend: "What confused my friend, and spurred my curiosity, was that COVID-19's impact on intimacy with her husband had been anything but straight-forward. There had been moments when she and her husband felt more connected, both physically and emotionally, than ever before. There had been other moments where she wasn't sure she wanted to even share a mailing address with him anymore, much less a bed." So she went digging – check it out. 

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