Hi read, Happy Holidays! I hope your holiday season is off to a great start! It's the final stretch of 2023! Let's end the year strong, Mompowerment mamas! I described this season to my boys as the final sprint to the end of the (calendar) year. They start their break in two weeks, so I'll step away from work right around then. I'm sharing what is helping me get things done right now. Here are 5 tips to help you create/support your make-it-happen mindset!! Be specific with your time AND energy. Don't be distracted by shiny objects. Focus on the one or two things you must do to feel like you're ending on a strong note. Define your goals. Break down those goals into smaller bites. Consider breaking things down into tasks you can complete in 10-15 minutes. And don't let energy vampires use up your energy right now. You know who those people are in your life. Limit your time with them if you must see them or maybe even figure out a way to put off seeing them until you've found your groove in the new year. (And still limit time with them then.) Plan your time. What does that look like right now? You know I plan my weeks on Sunday and my days the night before. When I'm super focused, I put deadlines on my calendar. I set reminders for those deadlines/appointments on my schedule. I have my running list and I make daily lists when it's time for me to get uber-focused. I know exactly what I need to accomplish each day and I LOVE checking off items on those mini to-do lists. I want to get those must-do things done, so I have more time for fun with my family and friends. Boundaries matter. Say "no" like a toddler learning no for the first time. You know what you really want and need to attend or do. Say no to all the rest. Worried you'll miss something at work? Agree with your clients, manager(s), and team about what is an emergency. Essentially, agree on when it's OK to cross the boundaries you put in place. Ask for what you need. Please do not do this alone! Talk to your significant other about dividing and conquering everything, including events at your child's school where both parents don't really need to be there. Work with friends and neighbors to carpool to all those extra events this season. Maybe you can have a housekeeper come more frequently just for this month. Find someone to wrap holiday gifts. Hire a college student home for the break to run errands (e.g., grab the pick-up orders, etc.). Manage stress. Take deep breaths (you know the ones that fill up your belly, not just your chest). Give yourself enough time to do things. Belly laugh. Have a dance party with your kids. Read a book for 6+ minutes. Meditate. Get outside for at least a few minutes and I don't mean while you're running errands. Move your body. Whatever helps you to manage stress, now is the time to do those things! What goal do you want to accomplish in the next few weeks so that you feel you've been able to end the year strong? How can I help? Sending you happy holiday vibes, Suzanne PS Pass this on to a fellow working mama who needs to hear this. She'll thank you for it! PPS Don't forget to grab labels for the new clothes and items for your kids. My favorites are TagMates from Mabel's Labels (affiliate link). Keep your kids' clothes and items out of the school lost & found! |
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