At 13, what I wanted
—more than anything—
was to be thin as a prima ballerina,
so delicate I could pirouette
with ease,
so tiny I'd finally fit in
with the other girls
so slender I'd fade
into school walls rather than risk
being seen.
That spring, I made the school musical,
I had a part and a solo.
When I stepped on stage to sing,
my voice shook, then steadied,
with each verse, I grew feathers,
soon after, I was soaring high in the sky.
That was my first taste of a more expansive life
I didn't need to hide away; I could offer
hope
and goodness. I could be and do more
than I ever dreamed I might.
I wanted to chase that feeling over and over.
I'd like to say that moment was a revolution,
but that would only be half-true.
For nearly 40 years, I've wrestled with
silence and singing
fitting in and standing out
perfection and mess.
On my best days, I claim my power.
On my worst, I'm 13 again, still afraid
of sharing my voice.
If I could warn her, oh if I could whisper
wisdom into my younger self's ears, I'd tell her:
Some men will try to cage you
and keep you small.
Don't let them.
Sing your song.
Spread your wings.
Let your beautiful, wild self
be free.
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