Sometimes it is much better to let your anger out instead of keeping it inside.
All human beings have emotions and their own limits in their life whether they express it or not.
We should not expect them to behave the same way to everything or especially to things that are normal to us but not to them.
I have known known lots of shy and "people pleaser " who became extremely uncontrollable once they lost their senses.
And what is the reason for this unexpected behavior?
As I have already explained a bit about limits and anger. Next, I will ty to dig deeper into this issue by explaining what is the reason behind this issue and what leads to it.
First of all those kind of people tend to keep their emotions and anger always inside of their body or minds. But why do they do this?
Because they do not put themselves in the first place,
Because they are afraid once they show their true thoughts, they will loose the ones they've always spoiled and now these spoiled persons are used to their "soft side".
But once they are fed up after all those internalized feelings, they give a huge reaction to small details that many people will see as an "overreaction".
But it is just the result of internalized feelings that had be let out before a looong time ago.
So if you do not want to be misunderstood, please show your thoughts and do not be afraid of critism. In this way you will have much better and real friendships and relationships as well. I think this behavior are also mostly seen in mothers who try to save their marriage by staying silence, but don't they know, they are just avoiding the unsolved problem that will lead to a bigger problem in the future.
Agent Queen
I hope that someday that people will find the courage and confidence to speak up.
Just know that you are not the only one with this problem and it is never too late to solve it…
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