A hug from her families, that showed her that she's, understood, and that's settled her down, dissipated her mood swings in her menopause…translated…
As I'd entered into midlife, I'd become, unreasonable, if there's something minute that upset me, I'd, gotten, furious, and those around me told me that I was in menopause, that I was, giving them, unwanted, troubles. And, the families started, staying out of my, way, but, they still get into the line of fires from time to time, and the house is, often, fuming.
how it was as her families interacted with her...the family members needed to armor themselves up, to NOT get stung by her...illustration from online
Since I'd begun working as a full-time housewife, I'd believed myself to be tough as hell, and even if I'd felt, completely, strained, burned out, I'd still, worked up the energies to keep on, dealing with everything. I'd often wondered, why do the "housewives" get treated so unfairly? As I ruminated, I'd found myself, getting, angrier, angrier, and angrier with each thought.
And my husband and children would, maintain their silence, not talked back to me, to weather through the storms I put them under, and, without an audience, the soliloquy I was performing seemed, quite, pointless then. But, that day, they'd countered my upset with a surprising, hug, showed me that they'd understood my hardship behind my bad moods.
Or maybe, the hedgehogs do, need more hugs than the rabbits, and, hugging, is easy, and the best way, to dissolve the fumes that are, rising up at home.
So, this woman is her menopause, overworked as a stay-at-home housewife, with too many chores to complete, in-laws she needs to deal with, no wonder she gets, upset, and, her hormones are also, out-of-whack, like how we ladies get when we get our, PMS, and all this woman needed was that hug from her loved ones, letting her know, that they'd understood, the trials she'd been put under, how hard she'd, worked, to give everything she could, to her, families, and that was, enough!
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