Nikita Haupt posted: " Born in a conservative family, I was often told what I should do and especially what I shouldn't. I was the first child of my parents and I saw them making my boundaries. Boundaries that I knew I will break and prove myself worthy of a bigger and better " NIKITA BHARDWAJ HAUPT
Born in a conservative family, I was often told what I should do and especially what I shouldn't. I was the first child of my parents and I saw them making my boundaries. Boundaries that I knew I will break and prove myself worthy of a bigger and better life, a life where I can be myself and my achievements are mine, my boundaries are mine and my life is my own creation.
I graduated in 2010. 5 years down the lane, I bought my first house. It came as a surprise to a lot of people around me but I knew I will do this. It was my dream come true. A dream that I worked for and made a success. What disturbed me was the people who I thought were close to me and would be happy after getting to know about my achievements, were not. They were the same people I spent years with thinking they were my true friends and well-wishers. I learned a lesson, the sad way, but I learned it. This also showed me who my true friends and near ones were.
After freelancing for a few years, my brother and I found our first company First Fruit solution pvt. ltd in 2017. Back then I did not really know much about what I will do in my future but I had dreams, hope, and visions. I began taking driving lessons for a car in my late twenties and bought my own car in 2018. Who says it is too late to learn how to drive? Naahh! I bought another house in 2019 and this time my family and my friends shared my happiness and celebrated my achievements. I wasn't the lucky one when it comes to relationships and so I wasn't sure whether, if at all, I will get anyone who I will love and will love me for being myself? But, life has its bad and good times as they say. I met the love of my life and despite all odds and doubting people around me, I married the person I fell in love with. This was one of the best decisions I made in my life.
I am a happily married woman today. I travel with my husband and without my husband. I run a business and a household. I study hard to learn more, I am learning 10m air pistol shooting, I am also learning to play badminton like a professional, and I do extreme hiking trips. I do what makes me happy and strong. Most importantly, I make my own decisions and will do so forever for the rest of my life. I won't say that I haven't been disappointed by life and people but all this has made me the person I am, a strong, independent, happy, and an achiever. Life can throw whatever it wants at me and I will make whatever the hell I want to make out of it - who says it has to be lemons and lemonade all day long!
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