snarkyinthesuburbs posted: " We all have milestones that signify we've crossed the road from child to adult. There's the entry level ones like getting off your parent's cell phone bill plan and using those twenty percent off Bed, Bath and Beyond coupons because saving mo" Snarky in the Suburbs
We all have milestones that signify we've crossed the road from child to adult. There's the entry level ones like getting off your parent's cell phone bill plan and using those twenty percent off Bed, Bath and Beyond coupons because saving money has suddenly become very important. Then there's the really big watershed moments like getting married and having children. For me one of my "hey you're a grown woman" milestones was cooking a turkey for the very first time.
I'm not going to lie turkeys scare me in all forms fresh, frozen and free range. Have you've ever seen a turkey up close and personal? I have and they're jerks.
When I was growing up in Texas wild turkeys just roamed around my neighborhood like they owned the place. No, I'm being too kind. These turkeys were bullies looking to mix it up. They would strut around with their cranberry congealed salad colored snood and wattle and give you what can only be termed a very assertive and hateful gooble as if they were demanding your allegiance to their reign as poultry royalty.
I spent the better part of my childhood screaming and making sure I didn't run afoul of fowl. I still believe to this day that the whole weirdo snood and wattle thing is a sign that aliens, sometime in this space time continuum, hooked up with turkeys. Just saying.
It didn't help my gooble, gooble phobia when one Thanksgiving morning I witnessed my mother doing, what seemed to me at a very impressionable age, unspeakable things to a twenty pound Butterball. As I turned the corner into the kitchen I saw my mom scalding the turkey with hot water, then she started giving the bird a real beat down, going all Ali/Frazier circa 1975 on it. As if that wasn't enough after she stopped the brutality and took a few puffs on her Winston's 100s she stuck her hand, like her whole entire hand and wrist, into the turkey and begin ripping stuff out.
I don't remember anything else after that. I either passed out or have repressed the traumatic and gruesome memory. All I know is that after that I was on team "I never want to touch a turkey."
I was able to stay on that team for years until I had a family with children and a husband that wanted a turkey dinner for Thanksgiving. Oh sure, I could have bought a ready made turkey from a grocery store or even had my husband do the honors, but I had made the momentous decision that I was going to conquer my turkey fear and give in to the bird.
I started out by doing extensive research and discovered just why my mother, all those decades ago, was going WWF on a turkey. She had not sufficiently defrosted the Butterball and due to wanting her family to eat before midnight my mom had to resort to extreme thawing measures up to and including turkey waterboarding with boiling water and poultry pugilistics.
Armed with this knowledge and wanting to stop my family's cycle of culinary violence the first momentous decision I made was to go the fresh, not frozen turkey route. The second and much more troubling was deciding where to get the fresh turkey. All my earth mama friends, and by that mean women who would rather die than pack a Smuckers Uncrustable in their kid's lunch, were all about the farm to table scene which is not as cozy and mason jar"ish" as it sounds.
Oh no, in regards to Thanksgiving dinner the term farm to table was very literal. As in you went to a farm and selected which turkey you wanted slaughtered for your holiday meal. I have a strict, never wavering rule that I don't ever want to know my protein before I eat it. No, how do you do's, or eye contact ever should be made with anything that will someday be making a trip down my digestive track.
This is why after much soul searching I went to Whole Foods and opted for one of their fresh turkeys. When I walked out of the store carrying my reusable grocery bag laden with an organic fifteen pound turkey, from a farm that thankfully I never had to visit, I felt grown up. I was an adult who was going to cook a turkey.
Once I got that bad boy home I was still energized and was ready to embark on part two on my adventure - cooking the bird. Armed with Playtex kitchen gloves that went up almost to my elbow, I began the most perilous part of my journey skin-to-skin or plastic glove to skin contact with the turkey.
Yuck!
It was bad enough that I had to basically give the turkey a spa treatment in the sink, but when it came time to remove the giblets or whatever it's called from the "body cavity" of the bird I had to take a break and let the waves of nausea pass. Finally, with the aid of kitchen forceps (aka salad tongs) I successfully delivered a packet of gunk from my turkey.
Next up was seasoning and while I could massage in a pepper and thyme like a nail technician giving a salt scrub pedicure on some fleshy cankles the one thing I couldn't do, no matter how many pep talks I gave myself, was the whole Hannibal Lecter procedure of going under the turkey skin, with surgical precision and placing pats of mustard chive butter and twigs of rosemary. Was I cooking or honing serial killer skills?
I was this close to calling it quits, but instead decided to throw out Plan A - which was the fancy cookbook I was following on how to cook a turkey and go to Plan B - redneck. Oh yeah, I was going to stick that bird in a vat of oil and deep fry it.
This was my kind of recipe. It had three sentences. Put oil in a stock pot. Place turkey in oil. Fry. Nevermind that also included with the recipe was dire warnings about the possibility of grease splatter catching you or your house on fire.
I got my biggest pot, poured what looked to be a half gallon of cooking oil in it, turned the burner up and plunged the tukey into a hot tub of bubbling oil. Yes, there was splatter and I have a scar on my inner forearm from the kick back of poultry meeting Wesson oil causing what I'm sure was, at least, a second degree burn, but it was so worth it.
That Thanksgiving my turkey wasn't close to perfect. (Parts of it were even charred, but I got around that by referring to it as "flashed fried forward" which I thought might amp up my kitchen cred.) But it didn't matter because I felt wonderful. Not even the sight of of my family burying the meat under their mashed potatoes or discreetly draping some squash casserole over a wing damped my glow.
I had conquered my fear and I had never felt more grown up. Or maybe that was the wine and painkiller I had taken to deal with the pain from the burn. Whatever. The important thing is I did it and I never did had to do it again.
That's right fifteen years and counting and I've never cooked another turkey. One and done! Jealous?
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When you're done being enamored with my culinary gifts (or lack thereof) may I suggest taking a lookie loo at my latest book for 2022 - Four Seasons of Snarky! It's a wild ride through the cul-de-sac featuring some of the greatest hits from Snarky in the Suburbs. Where schemes, payback, and retribution scenarios all tell the tale of a woman who will admit she might be crazy, but you know in a good way.
When you're done being enamored with my culinary gifts (or lack thereof) may I suggest taking a lookie loo at my latest book for 2022 - Four Seasons of Snarky! It's a wild ride through the cul-de-sac featuring some of the greatest hits from Snarky in the Suburbs. Where schemes, payback, and retribution scenarios all tell the tale of a woman who will admit she might be crazy, but you know in a good way. 
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