Hi read, How are you? How is your 2024 going? I know that February is so often about kids and Valentine's parties at school. And then there is a focus on romantic love. Here's the thing. It starts with self-love. How you love yourself matters, so let's talk about different ways to treat yourself with kindness and respect. Kick perfectionism to the curb. Being perfect is rarely the answer, so let's all step away from the need to be perfect. Chances are that good is good enough. Recognize your progress. Yes, we all want to achieve but don't only look ahead. Consider your progress. Break things down into smaller chunks and acknowledge the many little steps you have taken as you work toward bigger goals. And keep all your wins, big and small, in your I Rock folder to remind you about the amazingness you are and all you've done! Ask for help. We all need people in our corner, cheering us on and supporting us. That includes asking for what you need at home and work. And don't say that they should know you need help and offer. Mindreading isn't a skill set for most people. Take time to fill your cup in a meaningful way. Take a quiet moment to enjoy your coffee (or tea like me!) before you start your morning routine. Stretch to relaxing music. Dance party in the living room mid-day. Exercise (maybe even with a friend). Whatever you love, figure out how to include it in your day. You'll thank yourself tomorrow. Give yourself grace. On the days when things don't work the way you want, it's OK. Give yourself some grace. Allow yourself to stumble without saying, "I suck" or "I'm a failure." It goes hand in hand with all of these things. It takes time to figure them out and make them a consistent part of your life. And here's a little nugget for you to remember. All of these things related to self-love also help others know how to treat you. And you give your kid(s) an amazing model to mimic. Remember that kids are always watching. How are you putting some energy into self-love today or this week, mama? Sending good vibes, Suzanne PS Interested in having Suzanne speak at your International Women's Day event? March 8 is around the corner. Reply to this email with details and we'll get it on the calendar! |
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