The woman had NO ill intentions, but the way she'd spoken, it sometimes gets the person having a conversation with her to get on the, defensive…but she really, DOES, care about the welfare of, others around her, translated…
The words, they came like knives, stabbing into my, heart, straight up, when it came to her, I'd, dodge as best as I possibly, can, and when I couldn't evade her, I'd, played dumb. But, when I'd, fractured my femur and became, immobilized, that was when I realized, just how, despite S's sharpened tongue, she actually, has a, very soft and warm, heart.
"I'm leaving the bucket and the mop right here, when you're done, makes the sounds, don't move around too much."
"I'll clean up the restrooms next month, you just, focus on, getting better."
the woman's means...hard on the lips...illustration from online
When I buried my heart to work, S would show up suddenly, and, throw the words out at me, and I'd, hated being a nuisance to others, so I'd, told her, "I'll try working on my own for now, if I really can't manage, then, I'll call you back for help", and yet, that's, triggered her sharp tongue.
"If you slip and fall, you will be injured even more, severely, that would give me the troubles."
"You can't even be mobile enough, you can't clean the floors well enough, and I can't stand the stink…"
She was, of good intentions, but, her words sounded, too, harsh. Since I'd, injured my foot, she'd often, stepped in first to help me with everything that was, originally my work, and it'd made me feel, very, embarrassed, and I'd, wanted to, reject her assistant, and, she'd, grilled me even more, severely. Had it been ordinarily, I would've mumbled to myself, but this time, it seemed, that I got my alertness, and understood her, knew, that her words were, a bit, harsh, but, her heart was in the, right, place.
with her willingness to help those around her who are in need...illustration from online
In the days I was a cripple, I'd, gotten a closer look at how S really, is, and learned, an alternative way of, communicating my needs to her, and, accidentally, found me a, confidant, I'd, gotten blessed, from my, injuries.
So, there are those who are like that, their words sounded, extremely, harsh, but that is only because those harsh words are for the purpose of your own benefits, and, that's just how straightforward those people are, it's their nature, they do NOT mean any harm by stating those, harsh-sounding words, and, once you get to know them personally, you will realize, that they are, great friends, and you will come to understand, that these individuals only have the best of intentions, they just, have a harsher way of, expressing their cares and concerns is all.
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