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[New post] Signs of Chemistry Between Two People

Signs of Chemistry Between Two People

Sara Victoria

Nov 25

Having chemistry with someone is something I never thought would happen. Some women never think they will find true chemistry with someone.

I was talking to a friend the other day and she mentioned how she thought she had chemistry with this guy, everything seemed amazing. But in the end she said it must have just been lust. Which can be mistaken for chemistry.

I came up with a list of things I think chemistry feels like:

you forget other people are in the room
you try to impress each other
you both try to look your best when the other is around.
their voice changes when they talk to you
they touch you, or lock eyes with you
when they 'accidentally' touch you, your body lights up!
you can be comfortable together with or without talking
your conversations tend to be deeper than normal small talk
they want to be alone with you
you remember random details about each other
you look for excuses to be around each other
you tease each other (and enjoy it)
they mirror your behavior and tone to match how you feel.
you feel like you've known them your whole life
time flies when you are together
you make each other laugh
you try to find ways to just see them, even for 5 minutes
pheromones, yup its a thing! Their natural sent turns you on and calms you.

If you find someone that all these happen with, keep them close! Because most people never will find that person or can be with that person. My guy friend told me that no guy wants to date anymore. Especially ages 35-plus. Being a single female sucks.

It's hard enough being single in this day and age. Everything is instant. No one 'courts' anymore or is romantic anymore. They just want something and then move on.

So, as I said, if you find someone with half or all of those things try to hold onto them or date them.