Plus, How To Say No And Set Boundaries When You're Used To Being A Doormat
 | I got the idea of having an open relationship, where we have sex with other people, and I can’t stop thinking about it. The thought really excites me. But when I tentatively brought it up to my partner, I got shut down. I feel like this could be the answer to our bedroom rut, and I’m a little resentful that my partner won’t even consider it. I don’t want to cheat, but if nothing changes, that’s the direction it’s going to go in. Help! | | | |  | If you’re used to always considering everyone else before yourself, it can be incredibly difficult to say no and set boundaries. | | | | |  | Think of it this way: If there was something he really wanted you to do in the bedroom, to improve your relationship, I guarantee you’d want him to speak up about it. | | | | |  | Money doesn’t buy happiness (there are a shit-ton of really unhappy rich people), but damn, does it make life easier. Once you have the peace of mind that your electricity won’t get shut off and your car won’t be repossessed because you finally made a payment, you can breathe a little bit. | | "I feel worthless, poor, stuck, and lonely. I wish the universe would cut me a fucking break already." | | | "I regret not having my own money & bank account. I work part time, but it doesn't bring in much. H supports us & even though I manage the $ & pay the bills, I feel trapped. I wish I had a career." | | | "My husband won’t stop spending all of the money. Anytime we get any “extra” he immediately spends it all. I’m losing my mind because I’d like to be able to breathe a little bit and not be stressed about bills constantly and to have a savings." | | | | | | | |
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