Tuesday, May 19, 2026

Should You Pay Your Kid For Good Grades?

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May. 19, 2026
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Should You Pay Your Kid For Good Grades?

For years parents have asked the question: should you pay your kid for good grades? The right answer is different for every family; even experts can't agree.

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Red Cliffs Lodge Moab is a rustic stay along the Colorado River, set against the backdrop of Moab’s towering rock formations. If you’re on a national park kick, Arches National Park is roughly 30 minutes away by car. That’s where you’ll find the world-famous Delicate Arch — yep, the one on all the postcards. When you’re not on the trails, you can book activities like guided horseback rides, full-day rafting adventures, or even helicopter tours to see the craggy red landscape from above. Those with a fear of heights can console themselves with an afternoon in the swimming pool or s’mores as the sun goes down.

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Don’t wait for ski season to take a trip to Colorado. Swap the slopes for a soak in the natural mineral waters of Strawberry Park Hot Springs, located just 15 minutes away. This family-friendly hotel is also within easy reach of scenic gondola rides, hiking trails at Steamboat Lake State Park, and downtown shopping. Suite accommodations are generously sized for four to six guests and include full kitchens and spacious living areas. After a day outdoors with the full crew, sneak away to the hotel’s hot tub or Himalayan salt sauna to decompress.

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Elevation Hotel & Spa
Elevation Hotel & Spa

Over in the Colorado Rocky Mountains, you’ll find this amenity-filled slopeside resort. Despite its reputation for skiing, summer is a peak time to visit Crested Butte — in July, the mountain town hosts a wildflower festival, when the hills come alive with colorful flora and fauna. For more heart-pumping activities, you’re close to mountain biking, rafting, and hiking. As a larger resort with a dedicated kid zone, multiple on-site dining destinations, and a shuttle to town, everyone in your family can choose their own adventure.

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Should You Pay Your Kid For Good Grades?

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