Over the past few weeks I've noticed more & more people commenting on my size & telling me what I should & shouldn't be doing. Not every body is the same. And not every big person loves to eat & doesn't workout. Some have a medical issue that hinders their efforts. I can workout everyday for hours & eat perfectly & I'll still never be 'society' approved.
I'm learning to love my body now, not in 6 months or a year but now. I'm happy for anyone who loves their body, but please do not tell me I need to do this or that. Please don't stand there & tell me everything that is 'perfect' about your body. Because no one has a perfect body. People are always working on themselves.
I am constantly struggling with my body, with working out, eating right & dealing with medicine. Life isn't easy, it's actually really f*cking hard. Everyone deals with stress, depression, anxiety & panic attacks.
So please do not tell people what you've done to drop lbs & what they should do. Because they could be struggling with really bad depression and trying hard not to crack. Your words could completely ruin their day or knock them back a free confidence levels.
I'm just tired of people assuming things about me just because of my size. In the past week I've had 3 people tell me what I'm doing wrong & how I should get weight loss surgery. That isn't for me. I actually enjoy working out. If you've done it the kudos to you.
Just please be careful with your words. You never know what someone is struggling with.
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