Today was one of those days when God really tests my level of faith, understanding, and forgiveness. One of my family members called to let me know how my children's biological parent was doing. My sibling claims that she is ill and the doctors say there is nothing that can be done for her. She is living on the streets. My family member is experiencing the loss of her spouse. As a Catholic woman,my aunt was hoping my sibling was reaching out to make amends.
The kicker is this: my sibling has already put our family through utter hell. Today, my sibling mocked my aunt's pain because she refused to give her money. The worst part she was quite cold about the children she gave birth to. Things that a mother should never say about their children and I certainly won't write here what she said. I read the Facebook messages that were sent between my aunt and sibling.
I have no intention at this time of telling the children these things about their mother. I made a few calls to social service contacts I have to find out if anything is true. The premise is that I know that with her borderline personality issue, she can be very manipulative with people. I have fallen for it in the past.
All I can do is pray if it is true that she is dying that she finds peace with god and doesn't suffer. I am really hoping she stops her alternative lifestyle(occult) if she is in fact terminally ill. I know people who read this will wonder why I believe she is lying it is because she has a LONG history of lying.
It is 10 years to the day that I took custody of our children. They do not need more pain from their biological mother. If she is passing, I will tell them when it happens. My husband remarked how glad he is that they are with us.
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