Do you make New Year's resolutions? I don't. I used to years ago, but then noticed a predictable pattern of giving up or never even starting to make progress towards said resolutions. I always wish for a better new year than the one we are saying farewell to. I remember saying I would quit smoking or lose weight as frequent resolutions. You know, I did quit smoking and I did lose weight but I accomplished those goals on a totally different timeline than New Year's resolutions. Tommy bribed me with an expensive designer bag to quit smoking about 7 years ago. He dangled that carrot out there and I took the bait. Tommy made good on his offer and I haven't touched a cigarette since. Even though I still miss it, damn nicotine makes everything alright!
As a family Tommy and I had a difficult past year. In 2023 we made decisions a parent shouldn't have to make and drove more miles across the 5 boroughs than we both ever thought we would. It was also noted that we believe we've driven over almost every bridge connecting the 5 boroughs and Long Island during our lives while raising our children. In 2023 I drove over the RFK/formerly known as the Triborough bridge. That was a new crossing for me.
I truly wish a happy and healthy and prosperous new year to all with very few road bumps as possible. And if you do hit a snag or two I hope you have as many supportive people as possible in your corner. Hug your children and let them know they mean the world to you. That they don't need an invitation to come over, do laundry and/or and have dinner. Phone calls are always welcome.
I want more adventures with my husband this year. This is not a resolution; merely a statement of what I would like to see happen with us. I know Tommy wouldn't disagree. I don't know what kind of adventures at this moment. And it doesn't necessarily mean travel. Where we live you can have an adventure after crossing a bridge or taking a ferry ride.
Happy New Year my friends!
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